Unfortunately, you must work on your relationship with your husband as he is closer to you than a friend. Friends come and go... and that is a terrible part of life sometimes.

Once you feel better, you can discuss your issue with your friend---a true friend would never NOT listen to you bc you are in pain. That is their job! Their job is to be there and if they are not, you need to be strong for yourself!!!

Talk to your husband, before anything. You live together and you share a life and remember that your problems are not lesser than anyone else's and nobody can judge you for how you feel.