Thanks to all who responded. I got clarity from what you said. He is a very weak man and cowardly the way he behaved not just in this instance but others. He was a taker, not a giver. I got no emotional support from him so I stopped expecting any. We never fought. I could go on and on, but I may be lucky he did this and I just can't see how just yet. But in the back of my warped mind I secretly hope he gets his. He deserves it. So I'll leave it to karma.