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Originally Posted by Clementine K
And let me just add to this... Ask your therapist how she would feel if you told her 'I care about all the people I employ' if the question was reversed. I would put money that if it were true, you'd be tagged as 'resistant to the process', having 'issues trusting' 'issues opening up to others' or 'issues connecting' and so on. Such a horrible double standard.
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Interesting, but I highly doubt it matters to her whether I care about HER or not. My money's just as good either way, and if I'm making progress, I don't know why it would be relevant to her. That's the issue with therapy; the imbalance. I need her more than she needs me, so I care more than she does and that's the reality of any therapeutic relationship.