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Originally Posted by vans1974
Hey ptang, that's awesome congrats! I'd treat her to brunch/lunch and then based on how it goes, just see if she still wants to do something else! I'd just have things planned to do, like you do and just play it by ear! I'd confess to her about your height before you meet her! When I was dating I found women liked me to dress sharp, to bring them flowers and hold their hand on the first date, and open the door, get their chair, etc., and pay for everything for them! Just try to be open, honest, upfront, humorous, confident and complimentary! Best of luck, don't worry, everyone gets cold feet on game day!
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Hi vans and thanks to all for the tips so far . Keep em coming. The date hasn't happenened yet, she's on holiday ( back tomorrow). Just hope she hasn't met a man . I sent her a message saying that i hope she isn't she isn't drooling over some swarthy Greek fisherman a la Shirley Valentine while all he wants is someone to clean and gut the fish and take them to market on a bike. Haha.
Yeah i think you're right about the height thing. What's few few inches between friends? hehe. Yeah i'll confess to a couple of white lies . First height. I'M NOT 5' 4" 5' 2" on a good day. Secondly I'M A WOMAN ( yeah a nugly woman admittedly) Dealbreaker? haha. kidding. no ... OMG how can i say this I'M NOT A LEO I'M A TAURUS. There i've said it could you still love me. ( I don't put my birthday on the internet.)
Cheers vans i can tick all those things you said. Though okcupid ( based on my answers to their matching questions makes me out to be the worst mannered person in the UK). I can't think what answers i gave to get that conclusion. Oh well. Updates to foillow . Watch this space.
Ps i was kinda hoisted by my own petard. I suggested the music venue to a meetup group that i belong to and got kinda talked into being the host for it. Which is like an organiser, meeter, greeter, put people at easer. Which i don't mind doing but not on a first date. Sorry Jan ( her name) you just sit by yourself while i stand outside meeting and greeting. Would she be impressed .haha.
pps I went to my camera club last night and i'm so unphotogenic ( a euphemism for ugly) that i don't think they took a decent pic of me. Call yourself photographers haha. I feel ( and prob look) like Humpty Dumpty after he fell off the wall. All the Kings horses and all the Kings men couldn't put Tangy together again.