It won’t be easy, and you know this but at the end of it all it is your future and your life. It’s understandable that he wants to protect you and not lose you but he shouldn’t do this in a threatening way. What he chooses to do with his life if/when you separate is up to him but you want to do what is best for you and your daughter.
I don’t believe it’s the diagnosis that makes you unhappy in the relationship; you might just have been unhappy long before your diagnosis? Whatever your reason, finding a peaceful solution would help both of you. Maybe you two just need some time apart to establish what direction to go for yourselves? (A trial separation) good luck
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