Yearning, I had a similar issue with my last T. She was good, competent, and a caring individual, but she wasn't the right person for me. We both agreed that she really couldn't give me what I needed. It was very difficult for me because I really didn't want to restart the process all over with someone else, and I kept trying to make her good enough, but it was too much of me trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.

So while I was seeing her I started interviewing other T's. At first I didn't tell her, but then I felt like I was cheating so I finally confessed. She handled it really well, and she actually gave me a referral to the the T I am now seeing and have been for over 4 years.

By finding my almost-perfect fit, I have really come a long way.....with still a bit to go!

Good luck