It really stinks, when you've done everything in your power, to try and mend things, in a relationship, and they still choose to leave. It will hurt, in the time being, but in the long run, consider how unhappy life would be, knowing that your husband's heart and soul, just isn't into it.

Make sure, you file for child support, right away. And ten years, tends to give you some vested alimony. Will you be able to financially survive, alone?