Is he ashamed he looked or ashamed he got caught? Saying this is an addiction is a little extreme I think...so 3 years ago he was 20 years old, and as everyone knows, boys (yes boys, not men) mature way slower than women. I'm not saying this is an excuse to his behavior, but if you really feel that he loves you and cares for you, then is it worth obsessing over? I know that's hard to think about in those terms, I obsess over similar things, big and small, for years (I'm still angry over a fight I had with a best friend 4 years ago). So look om the bright side: he's changing and maturing and sounds like he's getting his life together with the navy and such to prepare for a future with you which is awesome! Hope that helps

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