DEAR THINKINGOUT LOUD,

I'm really sorry you feel so down and I'm so sorry your friend feels this way. the only thing i can think of is she or he has never suffered with depression before. it is really hard to understand if you've never suffered.
However, the last thing you need is someone who is dealing with this in the wrong way. I can understand her not wanting you to shut yourself away, just try to explain how you are feeling, maybe ask her to read up on depression from info on here or the net. She may have a better understanding then and support you through.
There ara lots of people on here suffering with different forms of depression, so glad you found this site, it really helps. please pm me any time if you'd like to talk,,or see you in chat. keep safe, take care,

jinnyann(kerry)xx