My sanity score, phobias, depression, general anxiety, borderline personality, and relationship issues. Will I was adopted and it was keep a secret from me for 33 years. Raised by a dysfunctional family that got divorced when I was three and I was raised by a single poor mom that had several boyfriends and I lived in several homes. I never had a supportive partner. They were always emotionally abusive. Now my whole family is gone except my two adult children and My boyfriend always reminds me of how old I'm getting and all the other women out there. He does not live with me.