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Originally Posted by Yearning0723
I know a T (or another person in general) can never care about you like a parent. We're working on that. But I'm not 100% sure that my need to have T care about me has anything to do with lack of care experienced elsewhere; I think maybe it's just human nature to want the person who you tell super traumatic things to to be even a little bit invested in you personally. No?
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Read what you wrote here. The gift is in her listening. I think we take our ts for granted. I valued the regularity of the bus that took me to t, and he's like, hello? She IS doing it - it sounds like you want to be in control of it somehow. Youre saying its not exactly right, its not enough - what is this other thing youre searching for? This could be a big breakthru, but its elusive. And its not your ts thing. You keep circling around it, logically. Time to feel.