Men's need for sex comes from a different place then where a woman's need for sex comes from. Men have sex to feel close and loved, we have sex after we feel close and loved. That is why men can have sex after a bad day at work, after an argument, when they are angry, when they are board, after a loss, or well just about anytime.

For us females our sexual drive is based more on feeling safe, loved, calm, happy, and all that, BEFORE we can have sex.