I've been told its a two way street as well. I really do make the effort but its like I'm not good enough to even be given a chance by anyone. It leaves me feeling lost and confused. Sometimes we all put up walls. It's a part of our nature I suppose. But whatever happened to others trying hard to get past the walls to see whats on the other side? Its as if nobody will even try to get to know someone else these days. Thank you for replying to my post and if you ever need a friend, I'd be more than happy to be here to listen at anytime. *Hugs*