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Old Jan 31, 2014, 05:12 PM
AppalachianAxis AppalachianAxis is offline
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Originally Posted by fairyconfused View Post
I make excuses and get away from them too. Sometimes they're shocked, some girls expect boys to be all over them if they ask for petty help, but I am quite honest if somewhat rude, one girl even asked me if I was not into girls, I didn't respond with either a positive or negative.
All the girls that learned I was a virgin in high school were pretty shocked as well. I guess it's because I was always nice to girls and just kinda did my own thing, wasn't a **** like a lot of other guys I hung out with. I also wouldn't be surprised if some people I know well who aren't aware of my sexual aversion, ans that's everybody but my parents, start to wonder if I might be gay after a while.

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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster View Post
I think the policy of "the more serious the interest the more open the disclosure" is a good one. The only "untoward" thing that can happen with such a policy is is meeting a gal like me who would feel challenged by the impediment. It could be simply out of a desire to overcome unusual challenges (the reasoning would go along the lines of "it is no big deal to attract a regular guy - they flock to me en masse anyway - but this one... this one... this one poses a challenge I want to to conquer" or along the lines of "oh poor creature! It is as if an evil sorcerer had put him under a spell. I must try my best to free this man from the wicked black magic. Oh poor thing... and so delightfully attractive at that".

So beware of those who are up to special challenges
Hadn't considered that. I'll be on my guard!