Perhaps this isn't the right forum seen as there is currently no 'relationship', well I mean we are friends, we work together. My plea is for advice more than anything. I'm a twenty something too pathetic to put her own age as she has currently dated or had a relationship with the sum total of zero guys. I should probably at this point lay the low self esteem and anxiety issues right out there also.

Anyway there's a guy (isn't there always) he's cute, I find myself discovering more and more things about him on a daily basis that lead to the feeling getting stronger. Now let's be clear I am not a good reader of people, I would consider it impossible that he actually likes me, at the very least likes me more that a friend. But I dunno we seem to play off one another you know?

I guess what I'm asking is how or even should you make the first move? Despite the fact I am almost doomed to failure I feel like I've reached the stage in my life where I can't let anxiety lord over me. Tips and advice on minimising the embarrassment and crushing defeat when he point blank rejects me greatly appreciated.