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Originally Posted by AppalachianAxis
A: You're not a failure. Absolutely no one, man or woman, no matter their age, is judged based whether they've had sex or not. There's no reason you should judge you self based on that either. We find our self-worth in millions of different aspects of life. Anybody who says otherwise isn't worth an ear for listening to.
B: Don't count yourself out. Plenty of folks find relationships at different points of life. I can guarantee that you are hardly alone in your situation and giving up hope for the future certainly leads nowhere good.
I am personally committed to lifelong celibacy by choice. But that doesn't mean that I've given up the hope of finding someone with whom I can be emotionally close to as would be the case with most relationships. I know it's hardly likely but the knowledge that it could happen really keeps me going some times. It should keep you going to.
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Well, unfortunately, I'm pretty much a failure in every aspect of life right now. I seem to be getting rejected in virtually every part of my life, which makes no sense to me because I'm superior in most areas. So I'm doing something terribly wrong. In another thread, I mentioned the possibility of me having Asperger's (of course I haven't been diagnosed so it's just an educated guess). But whether it's that or a personality disorder, no one can stand high "doses" of me.
And the longer I'm single, the more I'll be used to being alone all the time and the more impossible it will be for me to live with anyone unless we live in a BIG house (or our schedules make it so we're rarely there at the same time). I wanted to get married, but how can I if I can't live with other people unless it still feels like I live alone?
I honestly believe that I have zero chance of finding anyone. I can't even get to the second date with someone that I have chemistry with (or at least what I consider "chemistry"). If 4 hours is too long to be around me, nothing is going to ever work with a guy. The horrible thing is that girls like me, but for some stupid reason I'm much more attracted to guys than girls at the moment. I have no idea why I would be attracted to the gender that never has any interest in me. It doesn't make sense to me! Maybe I just look and act too gay?