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Originally Posted by Brandon_Empty
I've been told its a two way street as well. I really do make the effort but its like I'm not good enough to even be given a chance by anyone. It leaves me feeling lost and confused. Sometimes we all put up walls. It's a part of our nature I suppose. But whatever happened to others trying hard to get past the walls to see whats on the other side? Its as if nobody will even try to get to know someone else these days. Thank you for replying to my post and if you ever need a friend, I'd be more than happy to be here to listen at anytime. *Hugs*
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I know how you mean that we feel not good enough. Maybe it is a lack of confidence. I don't know I find it strange also. Maybe others have so many friends but don't feel close or loyal to all their friends. As a funny story I even had a female friend text me last year not to text her again as she has given up on me and tried her best with me to be my friend. I don't feel wholly responsible for this as she is a bit off but it was a strange feeling to have another adult say that to me. I think I did not get too close to her as I had my doubts about her. She was frustrated with my hesitance to open up
Maybe we think too much and not just go for it. I know that is my problem. I am too cautious.
thanks for kind words and I propose the same to you