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Originally Posted by foreverlonely
I know how you mean that we feel not good enough. Maybe it is a lack of confidence. I don't know I find it strange also. Maybe others have so many friends but don't feel close or loyal to all their friends. As a funny story I even had a female friend text me last year not to text her again as she has given up on me and tried her best with me to be my friend. I don't feel wholly responsible for this as she is a bit off but it was a strange feeling to have another adult say that to me. I think I did not get too close to her as I had my doubts about her. She was frustrated with my hesitance to open up
Maybe we think too much and not just go for it. I know that is my problem. I am too cautious.
thanks for kind words and I propose the same to you  |
I know all too well about having a lack of confidence. I think its one of my biggest downfalls. That's an awful thing to do what she did to you. You shouldn't feel responsible at all. Its not easy to open up and people shouldn't hold that against you. It isn't fair to you for them to do that. If someone wants to be a true friend, they will stick around and try to prove themselves worthy of being trusted in my opinion. I'm sorry that happened to you though. It really wasn't your fault. I do over think things way too much. We definitely have that in common. Anyway, here's wishing you a great day today
