Hi. I can relate to your posts. I've attracted "toxic" ppl for years. I have a hard time saying no or standing up for myself. It's like I'd rather be compromised than to dare hurt another's feelings. I think a lot of it stems from low self esteem and fear of abandonment. I try to go by the philosophy that it's better to be alone than in a toxic relationship. But I know that's not easy. It's hard for me every day. Last week at a beauty sch a girl cut my bangs like 2 inches above my eyes. It looks awful, but I said I liked it !? I didn't want to hurt her feelings wth!? Oh well it's growing back - live and learn lol
Tnt
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