Have any of you ever googled "eye contact". I have and I learned it can be a powerful tool. I am still new at using this tool. In the past I avoided eye contact at all costs. Now, when I look at T, I actually want to keep looking at her because her eyes are full of reassurance, but I kind of feel rude if I look at her too long. Often, I close my eyes to gather my thoughts, or look about any where.