You're one of the minority. The majority, as I've learned, get angry when a woman/female identifying person refuse sex to someone who was being "nice" to them. That being the "friend zone".

I personally believe the friend zone is nothing but a social construct to further dehumanize women ("i was nice! you're not going to sleep with me?!" etc).

To be hurt my unreciprocated feelings is much different than feeling like someone owes you something. It would be wrong to be angry and resentful if a women refused sex in return of good behavior from a male/male identifying person.