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Perna said:
Ah, the old about game :-) You're supposed to share yourself as you are in the moment.

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Good perspective! This is what I'm bad at -- even in individual therapy it's taken me most of a year to figure out how I feel at a particular moment. Most of the time I don't know. I'm mostly just waiting for an interaction to end so I can think about it afterward. Kind of silly. Who I am in the moment is just the observer -- the one collecting all the information so I can ponder it later. Or else I'm apathetic or tuned-out, which is not very helpful either.

Sigh...
Sidony