I rarely post because I seem to not get what a lot of people say, but I'm going to give it a try.

So, first, you started this post with questions about sex and many of the responses, of course, are focused on that. One major thing I took from your posts is the repeated message that you say people don't want to be around you. Forget about sex--what's up with people wanting to hit you?

In my totally uneducated opinion, this seems like a bigger immediate problem than the sex thing. I realize you said that counseling was a waste of time, but what did you focus on there? It seems like you should figure out why people don't want to be around you (if it's true). Couldn't a therapist help with that? Having an outsider figure out how you behave around people and why this turns people away might be a very insightful thing to know about yourself. Right now, I get the impression that you think you're not worth being around.

You're so young. Maybe you misread social cues or don't know how to carry on a conversation. These are things you can try to change. Yes, I get that you want to be active and not just talk, but if you can't truthfully understand why people don't want to be around you, then that's a problem. I just think once you know this, then you can work on some social skills, then you can have friends, you'll like yourself more, then intimacy (with or without sex) could follow.

I won't comment on the sex issue since others have already done that.