Hello KILROY>
I am sorry to hear that you are having these issues. Sometimes people suffer with Post partum depression after they have children. Have you thought about getting professioanl help for yourself, to help you stay stable during all of these attacks. Sometimes depressoin is bad if not worse ont he other party involved with the depression.
I frankly think your wife needs to see a therapist, about her issues if not then maybe you should call her Dr that delivered the baby to help her at this time. If you want to Psisci (Dr Wylie) can help tell you if anything is available for your wife to take at this time. If you PM psisci (DR WYLIE) he can probably suggest what is available for your wife to take while she is breast feeding.. I hope the best for you and I hope things get better soon. Take Care
Soidhonia