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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
Have any of you people done this?
Was it helpful/ successful?
I am going to try work through them with t and I am scared of where it will go or will the feelings get stronger because t is encouraging them
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I think it all depends on what you hope to get out of the conversation. Do your feelings interfere with your therapy and/or daily functioning or do you just have a crush? Do you hope that he will express feeling for you or do you want them to help resolve your feelings. I think that's an important thing to consider before addressing the issue. I brought it up indirectly with my pdoc and he seemed to discourage me from addressing the issue. I think it also depends on the T snd how much they'd want to change the dynamic as well as you.