I have dated emotionally unavailable men before and I think this is what it is. My ex never called me his girlfriend and didn't want to be with me, even though we spent every day together and slept in the same bed and had sex while he was thinking of other women. I knew he was because he would never look me in the face while we had sex. Users will make you feel less about yourself, and as time goes on, you'll get lost and lose the best years of your life. That's how I feel now. I wasted 7 years on a hopeless case.

You need to do for you. Life is short. Don't waste it on a user.