I understand you so well. I'm also a guy who needs a lot of attention and just not getting a text reply from a person I care about would just get me angry and upset. I think everyone has so much they can handle. Maybe your girl needs time to adjust and understand what's going on because it might be difficult sometimes, but hey, now you found about this forum so any time you need to talk you can come here and that way everything wont fall on your girlfriend. And it is not you fault, we all need a way to let all our feelings out and everyone here is very supportive and willing to listen. I myself have started to leave people alone and log in to this site and it makes me feel better. My best wishes to you and your relationship.