ok, granted, I am not a man, but I don't agree with the 'self-respect' part, bebop.

I didn't wait a month before kissing my husband and I have plenty of self-respect.

I wouldn't want to perpetuate the double-standard and the stereotype by judging women who 'wait' as being better than those who don't.

Just my 2c

I'll bow out now, and leave the rest of the answering to the guys...