I think the thing that really bothered me was that she said I was "badgering" her, which I definitely wasn't, but that's probably how she felt, and that word is a really sore spot for me because my mother used that word in the exact same (incorrect) context whenever I stated a need in a way she didn't like. So it's bringing stuff up for me. Obviously my T couldn't have known that...but using words properly and appropriately in context isn't so complicated.

Ah, transference...