I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but I have yet to hear one story of a man falling for his male therapist. A woman falling for her male T makes sense. A woman falling for her female T also makes sense, even if she identifies as heterosexual. But I have yet to hear of a male client having transference feelings for his male T, regardless of if he identifies as hetero or homosexual. Does this makes sense? Why do yo think this is?