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Originally Posted by melania
Thanks for replie.
He told me about his feelings for me. It's hard to understand is it something therapeutic or something sexual.
I asked these questions just to understand him.
He also said he won't cross his boundaries.
I said that he would cross them if he really wants me. Am I right?
So he doen't want me. Why can't he just tell me?
Okay, I am little stupid girl who has fallen in love with her therapist and thinks that he could ever love her. Stucked in a dream. I'm such an idiot. I hate myself.
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Please don't hate yourself

This happens a lot! It may help to read up articles on transference, or in your case, 'erotic transference'. Like I keep saying, I went through the same thing so completely understand what you are feeling. Please read up on these matters and arm yourself with knowledge on the subject.