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Originally Posted by Yearning0723
I think the thing that really bothered me was that she said I was "badgering" her, which I definitely wasn't, but that's probably how she felt, and that word is a really sore spot for me because my mother used that word in the exact same (incorrect) context whenever I stated a need in a way she didn't like. So it's bringing stuff up for me. Obviously my T couldn't have known that...but using words properly and appropriately in context isn't so complicated.
Ah, transference...
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Look, this is it here. Its when we get all judgy with people that transference is taking over - that is what needs to be psychoanalyzed. If its bringing stuff up for you, thats your stuff, no matter what the t is doing. They could be hanging upside down and backwards - its still your stuff that matters.