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Originally Posted by Grey Matter
There is no winning in the respect of denying sex or wanting sex, it seems. I never quite understood it fully, and I am not a female. The whole "game" people play with "the friend zone" seems so pointless and unfulfilled.
I do think that there is a HUGE difference between feeling pain due to not having identical feels or affections when you hoped there would be, which the OP is feeling, and hating someone for not being attracted/not wanting sex.
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What I don't personally understand is how sex even gets brought up so quickly in regards to relationships at all. The sex, in my mind is part of it but something that shoudl be shared in an already mature relationship. I start going out with someone, or having a girlfriend it's not an instant expectation that we have sex because frankly sex doesn't build lasting relationships no matter how good it is.
I just think with regards to sex people are way too focused on it nowadays and ptu the cart before the horse, so to speak. But hey that's just me.