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Originally Posted by melania
I said in one post that I agree with you that I should see other therapist.
I also said that I've been talking about it with my psychiatrist (who's not my therapist) and he said that after therapy everything is possible if my therapist would like it too. And then he started to tell me about his (i mean- psychiatrist) love affairs with his ex-clients.
Some time ago I was seeing psychologist (I know her, we were working in one place some time ago) and she told me- it depends on your therapist feelings, after therapy can happen anything if only you both want it to happen.
I asked my other colleague who is psychologist- did you ever meet your clients out of therapy? She said that yes.
My friend and her psychologist became good friends after therapy.
Now you understand me? What should I think knowing it all?
So I need to find anyone else to tell me this once again?
P.S. I'm sorry about this offtopic replie.
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This is off-topic. I'm sorry as well. We can quit after I respond.
I am sorry you are surrounded by so many "therapists" who are willing to harm their clients in that way. Although you can't see it now, those relationships almost never work out. And they definitely don't if they are started (like yours is) while you are currently in therapy. I am sorry you are so confused. I know many, many therapists who would be appalled at the laws in your country allowing this type of abuse of power. It is completely wrong, and sounds like a huge problem in your country.