Hi,
I'm 30, have a Master's degree in a health care field, and have been cutting for going on 8 years. I guess I wish I wanted to stop, but I don't really. It feels like a part of me as much as any other characteristic. I don't cut as much as I used to, but I like knowing it's there if I need it. The scarring is an issue I've been thinking about more. My cuts never used to leave a scar, but lately they have and I'm a little stressed about it. I have never told any one that I cut, and I'm not anxious for anyone to find out.

I have also wondered about adult self-injurers. Everything you hear is about teens, which makes me feel even more alone out there, like it's a pathetic attempt to join some fad at age 30. It's also part of the reason I haven't sought help - I guess I can rationalize that I'm a functional adult with a bad habit. So, I can relate to your perspective.

Anyway...that's my two cents.
Starfish