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Originally Posted by A Red Panda
Why did you FIRST start going to therapy? You would not have known him when you first started, which means that something else brought you to him. What issue was that? It really might help us understand both of your perspectives a bit more.
He has his boundaries, for whatever reason, and those need to be respected. You are putting him into the situation of having to reject you and he is trying to not do so because it would hurt you. But he is also not willing to enter into a relationship, sexual or otherwise, with you. For whatever reason. Possibly he views it as unethical. Possible he just isn't interested in you. Possibly he might find you interesting but perhaps sexual infatuation is an issue he thinks you need to work on. I have no idea.
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He was my psychiatrist (in my country we talk to psychiatrists for free about 15 minutes). I was his psychiatric patient for 3-4 mounths when he told me that therapy would be more better for me. He said that he is a therapist too. He didn't press me to choose him as my therapist, he said I can go to any other therapist but I felt connected to him so I chose him for my therapist. And after one mounth in therapy I felt sexual attraction to him.
Even before therapy I was thinking of him too much. I'm afraid I had fallen in love with him even before therapy, I don't know when it happened.
Before I met him as a psychiatrist I thought that therapy is something useless and people who went there waste them money.
But I wanted to see him more then just 15 minutes for two weaks. I felt that he is the person I can talk about anything. He said that he felt that I will fall in love with him if I start therapy. But he told me this after I was confessed in my feelings.