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Originally Posted by hankster
Look, this is it here. Its when we get all judgy with people that transference is taking over - that is what needs to be psychoanalyzed. If its bringing stuff up for you, thats your stuff, no matter what the t is doing. They could be hanging upside down and backwards - its still your stuff that matters.
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I know my stuff is the stuff that matters. And my stuff is obviously what's getting in the way of me bringing this up with her...because I don't want her to respond to me like that again. But I guess she can't KNOW not to respond like that unless I tell her why it bothered me so much and then we can explore that...I know it's important to explore. It's just scary.