Well, the advocate tells me to stay in the car while my fiancee goes into her parents house with the advocate. While I am on standby. But I really don't feel comfortable being by myself in my car while this meeting is happening. My fiancee wants my support without that she's not in her comfort zone without me next to her on the love seat. If I can't go in with her what am supposed to do in the mean time. This is going to be very hard for me and my fiancee to deal with with.