I have been married several times and I am realizing that my jealousy is a major problem, I try to control it but I always feel inferior to other women....don't know if this is your problem or not ....It sucks because I actually come off as being very sure of myself and do better with my self esteem when I am not in a relationship, but I like being in one....I also tend to be toooooo honest right upfront,,,,