To add to this, I've had to deal with sexual problems my whole life. I hate having being told how good I am at sex when they are telling the truth. I hate turning good girls to hoes. I hated losing my virginity to hoes, I don't want to marry a hoe. I want a wife, emotionally no ring no wedding. Just a true friend, the love I give to that man on the inside and that boy on the outside is endless. I truly love him, he doesn't understand how this works. How love emotions people work. Almost all women I've met my age don't get this at all. I think a woman finally matures in this society at 25 at the earliest to at least 40 maybe even older. Men it could be his whole life he is in the dark and not grown up till my case like me where I found out with a good family, but a bad scenario real world of being taken advantage of in many ways. Being raped a lot assaulted physically and emotionally over love has taught me that people are evil and don't understand love sometimes and sometimes people don't ever. I just would give that advice to him, because he needs it and I want him to be loved. Sometimes one of the reasons, I wish I wasn't straight nor a male, if I was a woman. He wouldn't need anyone else. That's how love works and people should get that through their head. The media is full of garbage these young celebrities mostly don't ever understand it like normal and people accept there advice as truth because they are young like them and make good honest points, because they are a "good" "role model" ***** please. I want to be famous to knock some sense into these children of my age from older generations to newer. Like seriously enough is enough, no man woman child or human should be treated like that. I can't bear watching that to him. I will tell him he needs a woman who will give you the right emotional love and attention, but love I mean is much stricter than what is face value rebound hookup what he did with this girl over a period of last summer. He needs to realize that vagina will die and wither away after death. That love will help him, through all life. I want him to be married have kids and tell them how his life has been changed through love. I want him to experience what true love is not this girl taking his virginity ******** and say she is the one. No you are guillible I know you. I don't tell you I am very aware and when you talk to me like I am stupid and you say you are a player and pimp kind of dude and feel like you are the coolest cat around. It's not what I see and it pisses me off you throw away close friends for a girl. He's done this to me too long, I want him to stop being stupid learn learn learn. I want him to marry a good woman till he dies with her. U know that's what I truly want him to have. I don't care how bad or stupid he can be, that boy saved me through my sexual abuse and I'll be damned if I hurt him myself or another woman talking to him like a dog. I am not afraid to go off and tell her get out. This is not needed. I'm sorry it greatly angers me what happened, but at the same time when things cool. I am open to having a poly relationship based on compatibility, but I doubt she would stay long even if I had one with her and idk how many other females, because she would bring trouble, because of her lack of self responsibility. In which I know she has it, this **** separates the men from the boys. I have also a very sexually attractive therapist, she doesn't dress provocatively nor seems like a bad slutty person I think, but I am truly afraid of jeopardizing my self help from in a weird way me on accident build sexual tension from her and she just wants me to have sex with her. I have that affect on people sometimes, and it's a curse when I go around dealing with constant orgasms from going anywhere and wanting to have a friend where I got to start a friendship with a female after having sex with her. It's the result of my abuse, I don't do that, I've had casual wasn't too bad, but didn't like it. The thing is, I don't mind having sex with many people in my life, because it's normal. It's a natural thing. I just hate having this pressure to get **** done like I got to have sex with this person or marry this person and so on. I don't want it, I want to live in a society to have the freedom a lot easier to pick who is right for me and not. When I am now as a mature adult through sex, ironically sounds odd, but makes sense to me. I want to be physically attracted to this person and they are to me, so sex is an easy caddy answer to a caddy problem, but on emotional deeper level. I want the tension to build overtime as a solid confide of real love not some bull crap made up from a soap opera. I seriously am poly I hate having to deal with being stuck to one woman and feeling like that's it. It really is something I struggle with in a sex negative society with many people stupid and wanting monogamy as the ultimate goal. I garuantee as a fact that most people especially young people are very poly and if the society was more sex positive and not stupid. It probably easily happen, and be much more prosperous in quality, but maybe too many babies too. idk. I just think, that guys now only want nudes to wank to, which is very sad to begin with. I don't ask for nudes even though some girls innately send them to me expect me to bust a load on it. I don't fly like that, if I think you're hot I will want sex with you in person not on a camera phone. Seriously that's what this society reflects on caddy crap. I think if people had a ****ing clue what I am saying this site would have a lot less people on this site. I'm not saying psych is bad, it's a wonderful service. It needs to be much more serious though like people take addiction seriously. I am truly indeed a sex addict, and idk why I might suffer from something where no matter where I am at the only stimulation I get is sexual arousal. I can't go anywhere or do anything without every second my genital are aroused and I have the need to blow the whole world in one day no problem. I couldn't do that because of physical stamina, sex is physically demanding not only sexually. It really takes a lot, it helps brings bonds and breaks them. I kind of think of sex as an icebreaker not the most cherished item in the store. It's literally, the view I have would save so much heartache in people. I'm not all for unprotected unsafe sex, that's just stupid and people need to have a brain bout who they are screwing. I don't let any girl try to screw me, I don't care. It's truly hard, and I don't want people to be stupid bout this anymore. I think religion needs to update and focus on bettering the self and human experience and not be so you do this and you die or you do this and you will go to hell. That's not how it works, seriously people should know this by now. I knew this in gradeschool what has happened to this world I loved. I am done with this rant. This has been a truly troubling occurance to me. I love sex as much as I fear it.