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Old Feb 04, 2014, 07:31 AM
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Is this a recipe for disaster?
I'll give my opinion on this one in a moment.

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Is polyamory without allowing romantic entanglements to develop even a possibility?
Yup, completely possible. My neighbors were swingers and they could have all kinds of switches and swaps and stuff without developing a romantic entanglement.

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And how on earth is it possible that a guy who can't stand to be hugged can engage in sexual activities with two women at once?
It might actually be more comfortable to you because the emotional aspect won't be involved. I bet that's what makes it so you don't like being hugged.

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Is this a recipe for disaster? All of which lead to... Am I completely insane?
Okay, back to this. Personally I think something rotten in Denmark and I do believe that this particular situation can be recipe for disaster. People often unconsciously substitute physical for emotional connections, but they still crave the emotional connection and I think that's probably what your ex is looking for. Personally, I would tread very carefully with this situation because she seems to be getting attached again.
Thanks for this!
RichardBrooks