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Originally Posted by granite1
wow this is so well said . it is scary and complicated .it also terrifies me to become dependent on my T and you have so awesomely put words as to why. maybe letting your T handle how dependent you get with her. so far my T has done well with not letting that happen with me.
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How has your T managed it?
I feel like i have no medium setting, it is all or nothing. I'm either too needy or too aloof and independent.