I think she has been very strong with upholding her boundaries .I may not always like it and I am still working on feeling safe and that is a big part of it .knowing even If I want to she will not let me get to any point that I will get hurt. things are not perfect at all and I do still panic big time about it because it is just me . but I see strength in her when she refuses to cave in her boundaries but is still there for our next session after I have spent the week pushing against them. and then there are times that all this goes out the door and she is the most horrible person on this earth in my mind