"This is why I think that it’s a misunderstanding to think that sex positivity is about saying that sex itself is good. It’s more that sex, in general, has the potential to be good. IF it’s done in a consensual way, but more than that, a way which values the satisfaction and emotional well-being of all participants. Consent is just the bare minimum requirement, but we need to aim higher than that."
I found this quote online. I am a straight male and know this much more than most people do this is my argument and this sums up why what people think what sex is what love is. What feeling their emotions living being happy truly is wrong. People learn from themselves and their innate nature is to love and mingle. It's been with us since before we were humans. It's like some sick idea bout some utopic idea that men need to choose what woman is nice for man cave and make good beer while he drinks and watches football. That stereotype needs to go and sadly will be here a lot longer. This is a mans world and this has caused me so much more pain as a man. I'm not even a woman, I couldn't fathom what women go through physically and stress themselves with this. You know, I truly respect women on how they pour their heart out and feel safe. I want that too, but some people don't want it and like this sex negative society good for them. I just see now the true divide in culture is people want this to continue and eradicate people like me. I see so many hateful things bout gays or any group of people online. I am at the point now, that since this has gone downhill long enough, I'd be damned I'm going to live in this society and country if people are being systematically killed or genocide for sexual/racial/things and keep culture "norms" in the levels of where it is. Like seriously children little girls are being forced to marry men in afganistan at the ages of like 11 and even earlier without consent of the child. If you seen the video of the poor child who would kill herself instead of living a life of abuse from a man and a society that promotes that culture. It literally kills me, like I know how that girl feels in small way, but damn she is only a child. I went through sexual abuse at that time too, but damn i cried very hard, because that is a child a human being who is going to go through that. Like I don't want to grow old and this is what I see left of this world this kind of hatred and negative culture and saying perfection is key to happiness. You know without mistakes apparently this world wouldn't exist this universe was apparently a mistake to astro physicist's who believe without the left over matter in the big bang and it went according to plan I wouldn't have this convo right now with all you lovely people bout my knowledge of the world. I don't care the **** I got through, I just do it to teach people and tell people you as an individual should start promoting self responsibility to save and help other people then when enough people do it together things can be resolved easier even if world peace isn't achieved don't expect it too. The universe was a mistake, a beautiful one at that, and just accept things how they are planned mistakes and just say you know I had a lot of crap happen to me. I didn't do much to deserve this or I did deserve what happened based on things I did that were wrong to people, don't be hard on yourself and overly critical take the facts as is leave the speculation accept the moment and live for tomorrow. Seriously am I the only one who does this and thinks like this.