My T's boundaries show me by example that he will not take advantage of my vulnerabilities, they also show he has self-control and self-respect, he's able to act according to his own moral/ethical rules, which is inspiring and gives me a bit of faith in humanity. They also have a self-serving purpose for my T, allow him to keep a safe distance from his clients, but this is just another way I can learn by example how to implement my own boundaries. Come to think of it, maybe it's a good idea if I cross the line with him a few times to learn from his reaction . I'm starting to take my own boundaries seriously, this just adds to my self-esteem, and helps me not to feel guilty when crazy people in my life trample over me and I say stop.