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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
I don't see how this is relevant. If OP had been waiting for the day of his wedding, which in his mind was the right thing to do (again, I have no opinion on what is right for OP) and then got drunk and had an oopsie, then what you wrote would have been completely to the point. But the issue is twisted logic and not genuinely striving but at times lapsing. It's a totally different issue.
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Again this is kinda of what I'm trying to convey - that the reason why it seems I'm not genuinely striving and trying to stay pure is because there is a part of me that doesn't really want to...because I'm a 30 year old single man with very normal sexual urges! That is the conflict which leads to this dilemma I keep talking about. Just because I say I'm Christian and want to stay pure doesn't mean I don't have those urges...that's why in the bible it encourages men to marry. But obviously things have changed since biblical times and it isn't that easy to find a wife. So in the meantime whilst waiting for her, what am I meant to do...