I have never given T a gift although I always imagined doing so if we ever came to the end of our work together. I always thought I would send her a HUGE bunch of flowers to her home to say thank you for everything she has done for me, but more recently I have realised that this might be too much or might make her feel awkward. So I would now give her something much more personal and home made, such as a letter or book about all she has taught me I would not be offended if she didn't reciprocate because I don't think therapy boundaries allow for that usually. And I would want to give her my gift regardless.