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Old Feb 04, 2014, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted by hankster View Post
Ive been trying to work on this. Boundaries define a space. My space is kind of a mess. Having a messy space served as a boundary in that it did keep other people out, but now the messiness has taken over and it even keeps me out of my own space. Maybe i havent really defined my boundaries yet?
I don't think of it as a space like a home or anything. I think of it as an idea of where I end and the other person becomes.
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