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Originally Posted by Confusedinomicon
Don't feel bad. You had a moment of weakness, it happens to everyone.
Developing hobbies and staying distracted will probably help you move on. You have to let yourself grieve over the relationship but you also need to acknowledge your ability to move on and forgive yourself for moments of "weakness". Cry, but don't make it a habit. Its good to get emotions out. Now that you're not in denial, you will have time to process the emotions of losing someone. You have gone 6 months without living a life with her which shows strength because it shows you CAN move forward and that you're capable.
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Thank you for the support, my hobbies and other distractions have been my focus for some time now. They do help a lot but I guess I've worn them out to some extent, at least for now. You're right that I can move forward but I think it'll take some time before I believe that myself.
For some reason I have been having this flood of memories about her and how happy I was, it was certainly the happiest time in my life. I think I somehow blocked that out and now that it's back it seems like so much more of a loss.