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Old Feb 04, 2014, 01:17 PM
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Maybe something to think about is what is exactly holding you back in your therapy?
  • Do you not agree with your therapist's judgement or suggestions?
  • Have you tried anything he's suggested?
  • Is there a block on talking about something important?
  • Are you feeling understood?
  • Is it a collaborative relationship where you share, he shares, and you talk about solutions together?
  • Are you clearly able to put your finger on what isn't working for you?
  • Are you going around in circles because you're resisting change of some kind?
  • What fundamentally do you disagree with during your "arguments"?
  • Do you primary want to talk and gain insight or do you want advice?
I posted these questions to perhaps stir a sense of understanding about what is really not working in your current therapy so that you could make a better informed decision about whether to move on or stay. I think if you better understand what it is that's not quite right, it'd be easier to fill that void.